facebook.

over the past week i have been doing some life evaluation.  hence my sever absence from postcollegeproject.  as john mayer says it i'm having a quarter life crisis.  to he honest this has probably been going on for the past 2 years. (does this mean i'll live to 96??)

to alleviate some of the stress in my life i have decided to quit facebook.  i have done this in the past for a week or so at a time but this time i think it might be for a while.

i have weighted out the personal pros and cons for my life and for me it is the best choice.

I was one of the original facebook members.  It came out in 2004 my freshman year at miami and [lucky?]  for us miami was one of the original schools with access.  that's right facebook used to only be open to a few colleges!

i can now be reached at twitter, on the blog and in e-mail!!!

to defriend or not to defriend?

today one of my good college friends posted this interesting link on twitter.  it really makes you think.

i must admit i am an avid defriender and feel no shame in the act; however, the only people i am defriending are not actual friends.  (this sounds defensive i know).  do you really need to be friends with that girl on your freshman hall that you did not talk to but once on the first day of college because she transferred at winter break???  or how about that kid from chemistry 101 who friended everyone in the 300 person lecture?

I also defriend (on accident) a lot of sorority sisters who got married without my knowledge.  oops!

But it goes both ways.  after college ended, i was defriened by a friend of a good friend.  (is the word friend starting to look funny to you too?)  my friend was very hurt by the defriend and i was upset i would no longer be able to follow what this person was doing as we went our separate ways.  this defriend was done maliciously and i think was a bad move.

personally, i like to reduce the amount of access a distant friend has to my information using the privacy features.  that boy you had a great time with at the ZBZ/Gama Psi/Kappa Tau/Omega Chi 4-way (enjoy the greek reference) really does not need to or care to see all the pictures from your family vacation or your cousins wedding, and he probably wont be looking for them, that girl in your pledge class will be!

please read the CNN article yourself and let us know what you think!!!

BRRRR.

so last night i was so cold we did not have internet. oh and the tv would not work so i missed the office. i guess since i live it everyday that would be ok, BUT ITS NOT.

right now its -12.

i don't care how long you have been in the real world. that's cold.

to keep warm i don't even know what to wear. maybe tight under my jeans?


I am supposed to be meeting girls at Cafe Ba Ba ReeBa tonight. i don't know if i'm gonna be able to brave the cold. But i do love it there.